Hello and welcome back to Holding Heaven, dancing angels and all. It’s been a funny old week…month…year, hasn’t it? Not much to laugh about, sadly. Though it’s helped me, (I woke up this morning and bookmarked Positive News to have a rethink about how I use this site.
Call me a dinosaur but I still look back with a tear in my eye on those golden days of blogging where you just hammered out the first thing that came into your head and aimed it into the void. Oh for the Good Old Days of Typepad and Blogspot…None of this SEO, Influencer, Stats rubbish. People actually talked to each other . Ah…the camaraderie of those bygone times! We didn’t promote; we wrote, safe behind the mask of pseudoanonymity. We commented. We had blogrolls. (Note the expression doesn’t necessarily have any bearing on the quality of said comments!)
I first blogged on Dave Walker’s brilliant Wibsite; for me a kind of journal stroke meeting place where under the cover of anonymity, I had an outlet for all the joys, travail and angst of bringing up teenagers whilst studying theology (and being severely sleep-deprived at the same time.) Certain of us in this little community first met on a certain ‘un restful’nautical website (you know who you are) and at Greenbelt Festival – a favourite haunt for Post- Evangelicals, even if the word ‘deconstruction ‘ hadn’t yet entered our vocabs.
But…then came the ‘Socials,’ (hate that expression). One by one we all succumbed to the temptation of the 280 character sound-bite. So simple , so convenient. So easy to fire off something you later regret. Or from what I’ve observed – something you’ve hope other people will regret. Admittedly my experience has been relatively positive so far. To date date the nearest to a ‘troll’ I’ve encountered was a disapproving response from one obviously nearer to the Almighty than I after I closed the day as a guest tweeter with a child’s nursery rhyme instead of a suitably pious prayer . But hey – at least they responded.
Meanwhile, the blogosphere became more competitive; less friendly interaction and more pressure to have perfectly ‘curated’ polished, promotional sites. Which legitimately have their place of course they do. Though the accompanying pressure to present a perfect , polished promotional persona – definitely stressful. Whatever happened to ‘being yourself?’ And since I moved platforms four years ago , there is no blogroll!
Don’t get me wrong; I love Social Media. At its best it informs, entertains (channelling Lord Reith here) and can be a powerful force for good. But Iately I’ve felt a pang of nostalgia for the Good Old Days.( Not I may add, nostalgia along the lines of those ghastly, click-baity sites with ‘rose-tinted’ comments disguising a thinly-veiled misogyny , sexism and racism.) You know, the ones that have obviously taken their inspiration from Monty Python’s ‘Four Yorkshiremen,’ only not nearly as funny.
So, will Holding Heaven continue to polish its halo or hang loose in future? (I refuse to say “going forward!”) Watch This Space.
Hello!
You’re still on my feedly list… I’m watching this space!
Hello Kirsten! Sorry for the delay. My email put you in my junk folder for reasons best known to itself. Maybe it’s a sign that I need to up the blogging and defeat the tech gremlins.
Glad to hear I’m still on your feedly. Do keep checking . I don’t see the WordPress directory thingy when I’m on org and I do miss reading everybody’s witterings. I see your name on socials from time to time, though not hugely active . Are you on BS perchance?